Many years ago, my family and I traveled, via three boats, from Taiwan to the US. On one of the boats we spent a month, and on that boat there was a women who was having some mental problems. During the dinner hour, she would chew wildly and talk with her mouth full, speaking out very loudly, saying bizarre things.
Her behavior was especially bizarre when contrasted with the way the crew acted. The boat was a French vessel with a French purser and French sailors and waiters, who always spoke politely in very proper English.
My dad, being the loving preacher-man that he was, always made a point of talking to the “crazy lady,” as we called her, while most of the passengers gave her a wide berth.
One night she went off big time. She balanced on one foot while she poured water into a cup. She lost her balance and ended up face-first in one of her table mate’s plates.
The purser decided that was enough. He came to ask her to follow him.
She said in a loud, shrieking voice, “Work, work, work. All I do is work. All day, all night, all I do is work.”
The purser said in his very proper voice, “Really, Madame, and what is your work?”
“Eating!” she shrieked out.
She took off running, then, and the men—passengers and staff—chased her and finally trapped her in a stairway. The purser picked her up and carted her to the infirmary.
I was only six years old, but the memory never died, because all my life, a favorite saying in our family has been, “Work, work, work. All I do is work. All day, all night, all I do is work.”
So I remembered that today, when I thought, “Hmm, it’s been almost a month since I last posted on my poor, neglected blog.”
What have I been doing? Work, work, work. All I do is work.
I’ve been working on a MG novel. And I posted over on Novel Rocket. I talked about how to make living, breathing secondary characters. Please go read over there if that’s a topic that interests you.
Mostly, though, the reason I’m not posting often here is that I’m working on my speeches for my Toastmaster’s club. I’m doing one every two weeks and it’s not easy coming up with brilliant speeches on that schedule. Not only do I have to write them, I have to memorize them. I have to add new skills each time, too—this coming week I’m using a Power Point, so that’s a whole new skill I’m learning.
So…work, work, work. All I do is work. All day, all night, all I do is work.
What about you all? What have you been up to? Writing? What will be your work, work, work this summer? And what phrases do you have in your families, that you picked up from a book or a real life situation? For years I called my mom Mamsie and she called me Phronsie. We picked that up from The Five Little Peppers. Another one we always said came from Robin Hood. We had a recorded version—a 78 record—and when Robin, dressed as a beggar, hit the bullseye with his arrow, the Sheriff exclaimed, “Yoiks, what a beggah!” So that’s what we always say in our family, whenever anyone does something well. Wouldn’t it be cool to write a book and have a phrase from it come into wide use in the world?
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Sally I do enjoy your blog; even though I don’t think I’ve ever left a comment I’m always pleased to see a new entry in my RSS feed.
I love the story about the lady on the cruise. It’s wonderful how shared memories become part of a family’s lexicon like that too. That concept in itself is worth exploring in a novel sometime.
Ah well, happy speaking!
Megan
Thanks for coming out of lurkdom Megan. What an encouraging comment. I appreciate it.
Excellent post over at Novel Rocket. And your story of the poor woman on the boat really moved me. One, that your kind father reached out to her again and again. And two, that we don’t know what happened to her. Poor woman.
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Thanks, Vicky. Glad you liked the NR post.
I can tell you a little more about the hard-working woman from the boat. We didn’t see her again for the final two weeks of the voyage, but when we disembarked in Italy, we were all waiting to go through customs or something and we saw the woman nearby. Everyone was saying goodbye to friends they’d made on the trip. We had some Hindu friends, and some Japanese friends and we were exchanging addresses, thinking we might keep in touch, but no one was talking to the woman.
So my dad said, “I’m going to go talk to her.”
My mom was like, “Robert, don’t you dare!” Like she was wont to do.
My dad went and chit chatted with her for a few minutes. She smiled and told him how much she was enjoying the strawberry tart they had served us for tea and then they discussed the lovely sunny weather we’d been having. Dad asked her who she was going to see in Italy and she had family there. She spoke in a soft voice and there didn’t seem to be anything wrong with her at all. So whatever that ship’s doctor did with her, it seemed to do her some good. This was back in 1966 so he didn’t drug her, I don’t think. But she seemed perfectly fine.
And that was a good way to leave things. We could remember her after that without feeling too bad about her.
Oh, I love this, Sally! (And I loved the Novel Rocket post as well!)…We have so many stories in our families with catch phrases that I sometimes think we could say, “61!” Like the old joke where the prison inmates didn’t have to bother telling the actual joke anymore, just the number.
(Okay, I can’t leave you without the punch line…so when the visitor asks what’s going on, one inmate explains that they know all the jokes so well, they just need to say the numbers for everyone to laugh. But the visitor is perplexed. “Why didn’t anyone laugh when the last inmate yelled out 45?” And the inmate, says, “Well, you know how it is. Some people just can’t tell a joke.”)
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Love this! And I enjoyed the NR post so much it pushed me over the edge and, as I mentioned on facebook, I’m delving into my epic again for the first time in ages. It feels great, and in a weird way I think it’s removed some of the boiling tension I’ve carried around with me for a long time, so the whole family benefits.
We have so many family sayings like that! We keep introducing old favorite books to our kids, and one of the secondary reasons why is so they’ll have a frame of reference now when Mom says, “Ferpectly right!” (Asterix and the Laurel Wreath) or…um…yeah, now I’m blanking on all of them. So much for that idea.
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Hi Sally. I’ve been following you for a while now (ever since we all exchanged that ‘follow my blog’ list on ACFW). Having worked as a psychiatric nurse for several years, i really enjoyed your story about the lady on the ship. I’m so glad your dad reached out to her. So many times, we skirt around people with mental health problems out of fear born of ignorance.
As for posting on your blog, I sure know what you mean! I have not posted on mine for quite some time because I managed to destroy the format and am waiting for my web master to fix it. She is currently writing on deadline. I’ve been gathering all kinds of little tidbits to blog about when I am able to post again – someday.
i feel like I’m work, work, working all the time! I’m division manager for the YA & Children’s imprints for a small publishing company as well as Executive Editor to a magazine for kids by kids. When I’m not reading manuscripts, I’m answering email or planning layout for the next magazine issue or trying to find time to post on social media for marketing. Sometimes I feel like I spend all day working like crazy and don’t accomplish a thing! Yet, I guess every little effort moves us forward somehow.
Another thing I am doing is working my way through the Novel Rocket posts. I’ll be watching for yours.
Happy blogging and happy writing! OH, and so glad you are working on an MG novel. I always get excited to hear about authors writing for kids!
There are so many of these little “inside” sayings in my family that I feel rather sorry for anyone who joins the family and has to figure out what on earth we are saying. It’s funny, I find some of our family idioms creeping into my writing sometimes and I have to be extra vigilent about editing them out.
“Like, let’s don’t and say we did” comes from an episode of Scooby Doo. My cousins and I turned it into a smart a** response to a suggestion we didn’t like. Such as:
“Maybe we should clean up this mess before wo go out to ride our bikes.”
“Like, let’s don’t and say we did.”
One thing I had fun with in NSLA, NSFA is that a snuck in all sorts of little words and phrases from the original Star Wars dialogue that a SW Geek would pick up, but not the iconic quotes everyone would recognize. I’m hoping it adds a deeper level of interest for SW fans who read my book.
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We once heard a pastor with more children than he could handle say, “Smack that kid, smack him”. Wherever we see, or hear, a child behaving badly we mutter the phrase.
ha ha. I like that one. Very catchy.